Hi!

You mentioned about having an internal "feminine side". I think all people have some opposite gender feelings and desires to some degree and some more than others.

Some men are totally turned off at the thought of kising another man and being emtionally involved but get turned on at the thought of just having sex with another man.

In my case, I'm a bi femme crossdresser and I've had sex with men lots fo times. I love giving blow jobs and getting f##ked in my rear (I like that a lot!) I also love sex with women.

I discovered my "feminine side" long ago, and dressing like a woman (compete with makeup, jewelry, the works!), helps to bring that out.

I love being the way I am, even though it has presented problems on occasion. The crossdressing thing might not be your cup of tea, but I mention it as an example.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you do have these desires to explore sex with another man, go for it. Otherwise you'll never know if it's for you or not. If you enjoy it, a whole new sexual world can open up, and if you don't, then you'll know that, too. Either way, nothing lost and perhaps somehting to be gained!

Just be careful, safe and discreet, and be very sure that the guy you're experimenting with is the same in return.

Have fun and good luck!

Feel free to email me if you have any questions.

Hugs,

Slipzy

It's great to see this thread revived...and to especially read the thoughts of our Pixies who are more in touch with their feminine side!

TY for the *bump* Bobs mind!

Slipzy suggested...and I just wanted to reiterate...be safe (condoms) and be careful! It's a curious world and we are all in a hurry. Just never forget that a single moment can interject on a lifetime!

We only go around once guys! Make it a safe and pleasurable trip!

*hugs*

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I'm extremely interested in exploring the gay side of myself too, I'm 21 and for about 2 or 3 years I've been trying to find the perfect opportunity to try it, still no success unfortunately.

Update, I met a guy and we gave each other handjobs, he wasn't my type so nothing more happened, I'm still interested in trying more, but not with that guy unfortunately.

Not likely here! I am revulsed to an extent by homosexuality. Don't misunderstand, to each their own, just not for me.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours