Fine i'll just have to get right on creating the forms right now. That way i can have them at the ready for any issues that come up!!! LOL

Isn't he so sweet. all through reading the forum, the worst he did was laugh. I think with him printing out the forum would have worked the best. I believe he and i do have the same issue. Well kinda... I'm too scared... He isnt used to intimacy of this kind... resulting in neither one of wanting to say or do anything the other may construe as gross or too taboo.

he was a little shocked at my asking you all for advise. But was impressed with how straight forward, helpful, and non-judgemental you all were. thank you. It takes a lot to impress him to actual words. You all are good. lol

loulabelle, you were right. but i tried. if you ask ice he will tell you i've been dropping hints. i even tried the "can we talk some where away from 'the boy'." (one of our son's many affectionately given nicknames) but we were seriously side-tracked this weekend. we had an emergency that took away most of our weekend. well at least our part of the weekend. saturdays are mainly family time with our son.

hope you all like him and give him a nice welcome(i have no doubts)...hopefully he will soon join our ranks.

Callie (this time)