i agree with lou…again ...no subterfuge or dancing around the subject or hinting or leaving stories and thoughts on paper for him to find. you both need to talk, face to face, get him to listen to what you want and listen to him when he tells you what he wants.

good luck!

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose