Thank you, TT and dicksbro. The funeral home director had given me back the clothes that my stepfather died in.....I didn't give them to my mom, cause I knew it would tear her apart inside. I've been avoiding deciding what to do with them for 3 years...but I couldn't wait any longer. I kept a shirt, and the rest I donated to someone else, along with some other things of his. I hope someone else loves them and uses them, with no bittersweet memories. It's just stuff....him, I hold close inside.

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