SaggyBear;
I went through the same thing a couple of years ago. Actually, that's when I found pixies which gave me the inspiration i needed to at least enjoy some self gratification. eventually i worked up the nerve to ask the doctor about it and he gave me a sample pack of viagra. The wife wanted me to send him flowers as a thank-you and our sex lives have vastly improved since that day. I cut the 50mg pills in half and they still work fairly well, but lately have found i need a full pill. The only side effect i have had is stomach acit, but a mild antacid takes care of that.
I have wondered about the 2 new alternative pills that are now available; one is supposed to last longer and the other is supposed to be faster acting.
In any case these pills do not affect your sex drive or desire for sex, but do promise the ability to perform when arroused. I still use pixies to keep up my interest... lmao
Hope this helps