I think this man wishes to be or maybe believes he already has the body and mind of a pre-pubescent white boy - Peter Pan perhaps.

Neverland is his fantasy reality in which he surrounds himself by what he most desires to be or thinks he is. Acts of "love" reinforce the existential idealism.

Perfectly normal behaviour and no danger to anyone.

I am off to get the Fava Beans and Chianti.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.