I've never gotten anything out of sex but pleasure. Physical, emotional, and also pleasure from knowing the other person was pleased too. I have heard of some people that get tv's, cars, and nasty rashes...but those sightings are unconfirmed. ha ha

Would you ever put off raking the leaves until it was too late?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.