Laura Corn has a series of books for couples that can be found at some of the major book retailers like bn.com or amazon or at her site...

http://www.grrreatnights.com/


These are books you use - you or your bf tear out a page and are given suggestions for your lovemaking or romantic life - (depending on the book)

Ideas like sending your guy on a scavenger hunt where the prize is you at the end - and challenges like going out to dinner without your panties on - and presenting them to your mate during dinner -

It's chock full of suggestions and it's a heck of alot of fun - my wife and I know of at least 3 other couples who use this and are happy with the results : )

just my 2 cents..