I absolutely love a slow, languid, teasing handjob. Whether or not I cum is not up to me, but literally in your hands. I love a constant flow of dialogue where you're murmuring to me about how hard I feel; how you can feel my pulse through my cock; how you can see my stomach tense up when I'm getting close to orgasm...and how it relaxes when you're backing off.

And when I cum, wow! I love when you squeeze it tight when I squirt, or when you apply continuous slow strokes throughout the climax.

There's nothing like a handjob. Part of it is the sexual stimulation, and the rest is definately being under someone's control.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.