a lot of things were done in the old testament that Jesus condemned in the new.
you can pick out many things in the old testament and justify it today, they were not against the law then until Jesus did away with it in the new.
Listen I dont want to get into a Bible argument with anyone okay, God has clearly given us all FREE WILL; but , their is a consequence of it. Good or bad, right or wrong it is OUR choice.
Oral sex is still sex and it can kill you obviously.
Syphilis in lungs is the STD.
Screw some acts of preachers, priest and holy men in all religions and faiths just cause they may do it does not make them RIGHT, it makes them HUMAN.

Is monogomy the BEST choice,
or is anything you want the BEST choice?

Choose just my opinion, I'm done.