2 observations:

#1: the title of this thread is "moving on"...so far there is no sign that that has happened, or ever will...

#2: The forum section is "Advice"...so far no sign that the subject wants to take any...

sub-point #2a: It's "Advice", not "Whine about how bad I feel until everybody wants to reach thru their computer screen & choke the living shit out of me!"

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