We can all agree that we all have a first time.

1.As for a young male teen most of the time "I was the first" a compition so to say hopefully as we get older we out grow that tenency.
2.The decision you make is a milestone in life wether it's happens to be Great,good, bad or indifferent. We may forget about a one night stand or the middle of a long term relationship but some how you always remember that first time.
3. You need to be ready if there is any doubt wait.
4.As for some pixies folks we needn't so harsh on the girl this might be the only place she felt comfortable to ask.

Hope it helped