
01-29-2006, 04:46 AM
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Mrs FussyPucker
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Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: England
Posts: 3,635
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I read an article recently about why people cheat or otherwise lose interest in their partners.
The main way to prevent this happening is to be an interesting person. That means having your own life, your own interests and having different experiences from your partner, so that when you are together you have new things to share with each other. Essentially making sure that you are an interesting person means that you never run out of conversation and you both continue to develop as individuals.
Now I'm not saying that it will definitely work in your case, but certainly your best bet at getting to be back with her is to go out there and grab life by the throat......enjoy yourself and get happy....miserable people really really really aren't attractive.
As for calling her, please don't. A break is exactly that. A break. She's asked for some space from you and that's what you need to give her. You need to use this time to accept that this relationship may well be over and start getting used to the idea that you can't just call her at the drop of a hat. If the relationship is going to work out, she's going to be the one calling you.
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