A few days ago the full birthdate was in packrat's profile... which is part of what contributed to my advice... And I agree with Aqua it does matter... Just as amount of time in the relationship matters to a degree. I can say that I am older than packrat, not probably any wiser. And that I recognize people are all different, but my view of the world has changed as I have aged... even my view of myself and the things I want.