Thanks Lil, turns out I'm the department chatter... everyone's asking each other (but not talking to me!) why I'm suddenly eating in ... and smart ones and lean cuisine no less. And head's really turned when I only had one drink tonight, skipped the appetizers, had a salad sans dressing and a single scoop of vanilla ice cream for dessert. And I didn't feel neglected... I had told myself that's what I was having and I stuck to my plan.