That poem had me thinking about it the day i wrote it.
Jennaflower------- i too know of many that that has happened too. Its always Sad to think about it, But you know if you can find someone that you can spend 45 years and miss them that much then you know it was love.
Many people dont understand the importance in Love and Lust. They can live with someone for 30 years to find they didnt love that person at all. But wanted to love them. Others fall in Love with being in love or being loved and not fall their selves. some go as far as just to be with someone with fear of being alone and stay for 25 years and never one OZ. of love is there. But i have been married since 1995 and do love her alot but sometimes dont know if the others stuff i said earlier apply cause she hurts me deeper then anyone ever has before and has no regret for it sometimes. And never has learned ME if you know what i mean.
but its hard to tell cause somedays are gold and some are coal. But worst of all I may never know if she does Love me as much as i do her. Cause noone has wrote a manual on marrage. So hopfully in this tangle web of life i will know before 45years have past If in true that she loves me as much as i do her. But i may never know...........