Doesn't work so well with dudes.

Would you?

I'm not that addicted to chocolate.

You?

Nope... I like my chocolate in moderation.

Would you ever permit a lover to paint your nude body?

If she wanted to I would be game.


Would you ever permit you lover to tie you to the bed?

Permit it, I crave it!

would you ever let a lover whip you ... playfully of course.

No, I'm not into pain.


Would you ever let your S/O videotape you during sex?

Thats a stretch my S/O is VERY VANILLA. Sure, if he'd mention it - I'd be game.

Would you ever tie your lover to a chair and tease him or her relentlessly?

No. Not even if I needed the money.

Would you ever give your kids all of your heirlooms?

not necessarily....

would you ever leave valuables or a lot of cash to charity?

I might if I didn't have family to think of first. Even so, I might leave some.

Would you ever offer to be a sports team mascot?

nope - seen what those costumes look like.....

would you ever volunteer time with dying kids?

Hadn't specifically thought about that, but, yes ... I think that would be special. I do spend time with elderly who are nearing the end of their days and it's a very special experience.

Would you ever cancel plans to help a friend?

Yep. DOne it often. I have few friends...but the ones I do have I would protect with my life.

Would you ever cry at a movie?

Yep. Did it today.


Would you ever plan a picnic? Maybe on a special someone's birthday? :D

We do about every year. Meet with friends for a picnic; celebrate my wifes birthday (7/3) the day after; then go to the fireworks (7/4).

Would you ever hold a surprise b'day party for your so/spouse?

yes but if done for me, divorce court..... LOL

would you ever volunteer to hold someone's suprise party at your house?

Yes, but my house is not huge, so they probably wouldn't take me up on it. :)

Would you ever complain to your boss about doing something you didn't like?

Sure, that's called communicarion... but I'd still do it.

Would you ever swim where's it's posted "No Swimming"

No, besides I can't swim anyway.


Would you trespass even though a "NO TRESPASSING" sign was posted?

Yep. If the mood struck me.


Would you ever meet your SO for lunch...wearing appropriate clothing for sex?

Yes! I'd love to!!

Would you ever read an erotic story out loud to your S/O?

Haven't done it, but I would...if he were interested.


Would you ever write your SO erotic emails?

Absolutely! But to avoid woopses at his work, we have a code word to put in the subject line to stop him reading them when people are there ;)

Would you ever send a "secret admirerer" note?

How could I send a 'secret admirer' a note if his identity was a secret?? ;)


Would you ever BE a secret admirer and send notes to your 'admiree'?

I'm contemplating doing that this minute.

Would you ever live by yourself for a long time?

I never have...but I've always thought it could be fun. I like my space.

Would you ever break off an unhealthy relationship?

Done that, but it's still hard for me. I'm too romantic, believe that relationships can be rekindled. Most people just don't have the skill or patience to do it.

Would you shop for a new lover while in a relationship?

I've given that some thought but changed my mind.



Would you ever have more than one lover at a time?

I've done that... something called ... having one waiting in the wings... marriage puts a damper on that...

Would you ever call a past love out of the blue just to say hi?

Yep. Did it 5 minutes ago.


Would you ever have an "open" relationship?

You know, it's tempting...but I'm not sure I could.

Would you ever go on a blind date?

Sure, if i get that desperate!


Would you ever have sex with someone you know like a friend, just to make them feel better?

I've had sex with friends...but oddly, never to make them feel better. Guess I never thought it'd work as well as a hug, and a willing ear.

Would you ever sleep with your ex?

Probably not . . . we broke up for a reason.

Would you ever have a fuck buddy?

When I was single.

Would you ever pick flowers in a public park?

Probably not, I'd be to afraid of getting caught.


Would you ever show yourself on webcam?